Happy Sunday!! 28:07:13

Happy Sunday!! Its really heartbreaking when i see or hear people settling for the first thing that comes along.Settling is a symptom of lack of faith. We are the co-creators of our lives, which means we, in agreement with God, can consciously design what kind of life we want to live. If we consciously design our lives, then why take a job that makes you feel miserable? Why enter a relationship with someone who doesn't value and cherish you? Why tolerate undesirable circumstances? God doesn't award points for unnecessary suffering or low self-esteem. We are Loved by God no matter what, but we were born to live a fulfilled life.This cannot happen if we settle. If you need money and don't have enough to live your own dream, then you may have to get a job you don't love, but you have the choice to choose the circumstances. You can design your life to make money and express yourself. You can also choose to see challenging job circumstances as opportunities to grow and be grateful for the contrast of not getting what you want, so you can design what you do want.U get?Since you are the co-creator of your circumstances and how you respond to them, you get to actively choose what you do with your free time, how you interpret the events of your life and what your final goal is. A dead end job isn't dead end if it’s helping pay your bills while you construct your masterpiece. Annoying coworkers aren't annoying if you can see them as helping teach you love, self-love,patience and acceptance.Regarding dating, we all date at the level of our self-esteem like i ALWAYS say. So if you're not getting what you truly desire from your relationship, look into the true motives about why you choose who you choose.Having high standards and not settling requires us to spend more time with and on ourselves, becoming the people it takes to create the life of our dreams. We don't allow fearful or manipulative people, places and circumstances to dictate our outcome. We'd rather walk alone than with someone who drains us.You have the same 24 hours in your day as everyone else. You have the same opportunity to apply an empowering and loving meaning to the events and circumstances of your life. You have the opportunity to raise your self-esteem and date at the level of love and vulnerability rather than fear and manipulation. You have the power to enjoy your experience regardless of circumstances. It is well  have a blessed week ahead. Maamamia xx PS: Please join us as we try to make a difference . Support P.U.S.H today, for more details go to www.pushreliefproject.com, like our facebook page www.facebook.com/pushreliefproject . God bless

Happy Sunday!! 21:07:13

Happy Sunday...Love is complete.Your friends,family,spouses don't "complete you" your relationships should be a reflection of you.Be whole, not a half.So many people run around looking for someone "to complete them." But the thing is, everyone is fallible, so no one can complete you and ever live up to your expectations. That is why it is so important to keep our eyes on God and His Love for us. The Love of God never changes. Other people change, other people mess up, but God is constantly on our side, Loving us and showing us how we can grow even closer to happiness and Love.Our aim should be to not seek and chase for Love, but to BE IT. This means self-love first. True Love isn't setting HUGE expectations on someone else that they always make you happy and fulfilled.True Love is being so full of self-love and the Love of God that you have more than enough Love to hold your own darkness and light and the darkness and light of the other people.Looking for someone to complete you is to deny your innate potential to be an already full and integrated human-being. You are giving someone else a power that only you have.Also, making someone else the source of your fulfilment means that if they are not having a good day, acting in integrity or desiring to grow, then you are also doing the same. It's a giant anchor holding you down.In relationships, we either grow together or we grow apart like I have grown apart from someone in my life recently. God is constantly guiding us to greater and greater awareness of ourselves and as a result our Highest Potential. Relationships are containers for growth, not containers for proving how much pain you can endure for someone else.When we make someone else the only thing that completes us, we can easily blame them, but the blame belongs on us for giving them that power in the first place.Let's take our power back and take our eyes off of ourselves and our partners and friends and remember the Source from which we came and which we are all a part of right now. We are a drop of water coming home to the beautiful ocean from which we came. In doing so, we can merge into a wave and do far more connected to this Source than we ever could do alone or with another person. Have a blessed week ahead and read this message again. Maamamia xxx

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Happy Sunday!!! 14:7:13

Happy Sunday!!Being a loving person doesn't mean you are a fool like some people might believe. In fact, many times the loving thing to do is to set boundaries.

As with everything I tell myself, the key is balance. Too many boundaries and you close off; no boundaries and you lose yourself.
 As I continue to grow, my time is getting slimmer and slimmer. And more people are asking for it. I am such a people pleaser; I want to help everyone and make as many people happy as possible.
 I have been like this my whole life. I have an innate desire to help other people, especially those who are down and out. I love seeing people step up into their power and become happy and fulfilled. I learnt at a young age that I have a desire to help make other people happy. However, as I grew into adulthood and then embraced being an entrepreneur, I had to learn a valuable lesson: the boundaries of self-love.

In the past, I had a lot of relationships where I sunk a lot into other people's dreams. I had a lot of personal relationships where I would invest in other people. Some people turned out to be positive investments and some turned out to be not-so-positive investments. No matter what, there was always a lesson that I was grateful for.
I learnt another lesson this month with a person i believed was a sister who was more than a friend and a family member that people are just out rightly UNGRATEFUL and just cos you’ve known someone for a long time and shared experiences with them doesn’t make them love or trust you. Some are just waiting for one day to show you what they truly feel about you. This was a painful and crippling lesson for me to learn, both emotionally,physically, spiritually and financially. But I am glad.

Of course it is in giving that we receive, but that starts with ourselves. If we are not full, we will have nothing to give away. I learnt that boundaries are very important. I learnt that I had to be fulfilled before I could be fulfilling in any relationship or partnership.

I learnt this lesson through pain, but it has since become a path of joy. My ego hated the transformation from that dark place to my life now, but each time my ego got mad, my Spirit celebrated.

Now, I am living my dream. It started through self-love, then grew from giving that love away and is sustained by a balance of giving to myself and to others. I have never experienced more consistent joy in my life as a result of those painful moments and I would do them all over again if I had too, because on the other side, life is beautiful and sweet. Have a lovely week ahead and remember to set boundaries….Maamamia xxx

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Happy Sunday!!! 7:7:13

Happy Sunday!! There is a major difference between trying to prove your love and simply sharing your love.I can't tell you how many times I have in the past tried to prove my love. I've tried to show people how worthy I am, how loving I am, how real I am.I realized that I kept doing this because I had yet to truly realize how worthy, loving and real I was. If I had really known this, I wouldn't have been trying to prove it to other people.A lot of people suffer from trying to prove themselves to unavailable people.RUBBISH!!Here's an exercise:Make a list of all the things you wish other people would see about you. You wish they would see how loving, supporting, caring, faithful,hardworking etc. you are... Make the list...Now, ask yourself if you are demonstrating these qualities towards yourself? The answer is probably no for some or all of the qualities you listed.So, how would you act if you were actually demonstrating these qualities? That version of you is who will attract people who see you. When you see you, other people will too.Then, you can SHARE your gifts, your love and your worth with them and receive their worth, gifts and love. This is massively different than trying to prove yourself to someone else.When we try to prove ourselves to others, it is because we do not see our great qualities and are not giving these qualities to ourselves. Once we do, we step into a new paradigm and walk away from trying to prove ourselves and step into just being ourselves.Then love and authenticity can emerge.So I urge you today to start being what you want others to see to yourself, that way you would be able to deal with those who do not appreciate you and those who appreciate you :) Have a blessed week ahead and keep winning...Maamamia xx

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