Saturday, 27 April 2013

HaPpY sUnDaY!!! 28:4:13



Happy Sunday! We all have a truck load of excuses - many of them that seem real to us. There is a difference between an EXCUSE and a description of your current circumstance. We can confuse the two well. Usually your current circumstance becomes an excuse and it's easy to hide behind it because no one can argue with your circumstance. But I believe that you are MORE than your circumstance and that you can, through trial, effort and faith, transcend your circumstance. Why? Because you are NOT your circumstance. You are SO much more than that!. When you identify with God, with your Source and with your Soul (and not your circumstances), you take the first step in transcending your limitations.. It might be true that you have a circumstance, but you are NOT your circumstance. And the more you affirm and identify with your circumstance, the more you will create it. Because what we focus on is what expands and becomes real in our lives.So,What if you decided to no longer make your excuses your identity, but instead your circumstance - and then get about the business of changing your circumstance?Not through painful effort, but through prayer, meditation, service, solving other people's problems, personal growth and making Love the bottom line of your existence.What if you took total responsibility for your life, right now, as it is? You may not have been fully responsible for what happened to you, but you are now responsible for how you engage with and meet your life circumstances.You are so much more than you are giving yourself credit to be, and you have so much more help and assistance that is yearning to come to your aid, if you but allow it to. Be still. Listen. Identify with God, make this a new lifelong practice and then get out of your own way. God has told me to tell you this today. Have a blessed week ahead..Maamamia xx




Sunday, 21 April 2013

hApPy SuNdAy!

Happy Sunday....
Humiliation and disrespect just makes me want to work ten times harder so I don't ever find myself in certain situations. I'm still grateful to God for times like this because it really really does test my patience. I faced humiliation today and it made tears flow from my eyes. It is important to always check yourself and life everyday, the way you handle people, handle situations etc because that moment can make or destroy you. if you lack patience in a certain area pray to God to help you be better. Some of us just waste prayer time. Imagine an angry man who has offended someone because of his anger being cursed and then has marital problems,he goes to God to ask for help in His marital life, to me that's a waste of prayer. He should be praying to God to help him with his anger issues. We need to take time and recognise the problem so we can have an effective solution. There are just some people you can't afford to offend in the name of you have no patience. That is not an excuse. There can be a person you will make cry and life will never be pleasant for you henceforth. Its lives journey, not everyone you see is human, some or demons and some are angels so try to treat everyone equal. Have a blessed sunday and remember " be nice to everyone cos you never know what's going on in that persons mind,body or soul" aggression doesn't solve anything, instead it starts something really bad. One method I use to always help myself in life is I ask myself this question " What will Jesus do if He were me right now" then I do it! Try it and it just might help you live a better life :)  Have a lovely and blessed week ahead..Maamamia xxx (Ps: I feel better already so no need asking what happend *hugs* )

Sunday, 14 April 2013

HaPpY sUnDaY!!!


Happy Sunday...there are so many excuses that can distract us from our calling! Here are some: internet,over-giving to others,TV,too much socialising,eating,drinking,sleeping,drugs,making others more important than ourselves etc There is a rich gift within you that the world needs you to give us. You don't even recognise ur power or importance but its there and the thing is the world won't tell u this-only a whisper within u or perhaps a good friend like me:) or two or an inspiring book or story you read. In order to give birth to this gift, you must let go of all distractions. Part of my intention is to create more space for the things that I want to create and stop wasting time. I was chatting with a friend recently and he told me how lowly he felt and went on to say maybe he needed a girlfrend..its the WORST decision he can ever make now. If u feel u need to be with somone so u can feel high and useful-that is the beginning of ur downfall cos u've not just added another distraction to the huge list you have,u've also given urself a new role in another persons life and we all know what that role is "emotional vampire". Action is important, waiting till tomorrow slowly seduces our dreams and creations away from us. So stop crying and start acting...get rid of the distractions! Put paper to pen, start praying and acting as the Lord leads. Have a lovely week ahead and clear your life from all distractions. Your gift to the world is your priority :) With love, Maamamia xx
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Saturday, 16 June 2012

GoNe BuT nOt FoRgOtTeN.....RIP Ngozi Josephine Onyeabor

It feels like yesterday when we had that girly talk on the sofa...talking about the new dude in my life at the same time waiting for the clock to hit 12 so i could give u the biggest hug and scream 'HAPPY 40th BIRTHDAY SISTER...YOU MADE IT TO 40..GOD KEPT YOU FOR US..I LOVE U'. And it did tick and I said all of that plus more....we talked and talked into the morning and u gave me the best relationship advice and said " Sweet sister,I can see he makes u happpy, u've been alone for too long maybe now is the time for u to give someone a chance..." Then the phone rings and its 'him' and i tell him to speak to my sister but he says "noooooooooo" and i say 'Its her birthday, wish her a happy one' and he says 'mamama pls noooo' and i handed the phone over to you...hehe..you say ' hmmm so u're the one abi?...if u break my sisters heart i will come and find u o, don't mess with us o...she is my joy and everything' then he says whatever he says, all i remember u saying was "amen, thank u" and i took the phone back....as usual you asked if i was ok and if i needed anything...i hugged u,prayed with you and we went to bed...ready for the next day as mummy was bringing her troops to come and pray for u....I remember that day so vividly..how we went shopping and the experience with tat lady and her buggy....we rushed home so we could make it before mum but unfortunately she was there before us and we did not hear the end of it.....we ran in....gisted a bit about what u'll wear..gosh this is too painful..You never really liked pictures no matter how much i forced you to take them and i know u wont want me posting the recent ones here, even tho u look soooooooooooo beautiful in them. Anyway, i won't do what you wouldn't want me to do. i love you dear sister.







Sister I couldnt publish this post since but I will now. Remember my friend Kunbi? The oone you spoke to when i was so down and writing my exams? The one i was staying in her house..Sister she died, plane crash, she just died....I know u will see her, please tell her i miss her..I miss you and love u so much..God help us all.

Rest in peace my dear friend.....KIA4EVA

Where do I want to start from? Where?

I wake up with my head filled up with so many ideas for this charity we want to work on....I write, I make calls, I remember Kunbi and our discussion...I call Bolu...she says call Kunbi and I say that's true, i'll call her. I try to call Kunbi but I tot"later" or when I'm ready to register it i'll call her to put me thru cos I know that call won't be a 1minute thing as we have alot of pending gist...Henrys wedding, Ugonna, Nhs, the latest guy in my life etc......A week and i mean one week after, i go to church, bb dies as usual(very rubbish device), having fun with friends...stayed in church till late...got a text from twinny on my voda about this plane crash in Nigeria that killed people, my heart skipped and I just said " Gosh twinny, thats so sad mehn... I really worry for Nigeria" I come home charge my fone...see all the updates and all i could do was pray...i made a conscious effort not to update about the crash at all cos it was just too sad...I tried to look away. Then i get a bbm from my school son saying ' Mama I need a favour, dont panic o but did you hear about the plane crash? the one in Lagos' I replied saying 'yes dear' he goes on to say 'don't panic o. But i hear one of your friends was on it and her sister is in loughbotough. Is it true?' . At this time i had two of my friends with me and I just kept on telling them that i dunno what this boy is talking about cos i cannot think, i cannot cannot think of anyone that her sister is in loughborough that would have been on that plane....so i took the courage and asked 'tel me who? PING! PING!PING! my fone has been off, just turned it on' and lo and behold the biggest blow i have ever received came (at this time my friends had gone, i made sure they left before i opend his message) he replied saying "I hear Kunbi, don't know if its true' so i replied saying ' i don;t think its true but let me ping her and see' at that point believe you me my heart STOPPED! It stopped but I was still alive....So i called Kunbi but couldnt get thru so i calmed down then i called Jumoke and I could tell it was true from the tone..we had a convo for like a minute or two-i honestly cannot remember a thing from our convo. The rest is history.........

KUNBI IRENE ADEBIYI was my friend regardless of all the differences that we had, infact we fought more than anyone in loughborough but i still loved her..in another fact,i was always the one fighting with myself in the matter o...as the pretty young lady didnt even know half the time that i was fighting with her.lol.serious issue of a big baby.....My first fight with Kunbi was really silly and i cannot say most of the reasons and the day i can never forget was the day ugonna tricked us and left her in my room for us to settle our differences and we were just talking like husband and wife....i'll say things like ' but i text u and u didnt reply, ehn that shows u dont care now and i am not important abi' and she'll say things like ' who told you? u dont even know why'. Hmmmmmm kunbebe i knw u're reading this now and saying 'mamz it is not that type of thing i love u too o' but Kunbi it hurts, it hurts so deep, it hurts deeper than anything. You know now, you knw when i lost sister and how i was, u were even hurt too cos you spoke with her a couple of times but this hurt is not that type of hurt kunbi, this hurt is just i-cannot-believe-i-will-get-past-this-hurt kind of hurt and i dunno whats hurting me more if its that i never really expressed how much u meant enuf or its that u're actually gone like u're gone? asin kunbz i cant stop thinking about the flight...how u must have felt, if the pilot made an announcemnt, or if the plane shook or if the mask dropped down, if u panicked, if u tried to calm the person next to u down, if u just simply shut ur eyes and talked to God. Like i wish i could have seen all this happen so i could save you but i couldnt, i didnt, i couldnt have.Only God could have. I am so pained that our country Nigeria that you love so much and hoped to lead one day let u down like this Kunbi, I am so pained that the greed of humanity and the insensitivity of mankind can do this to you Kunbi. I am sorry and i apologise on behalf of the whole nation. I won;t be like them i will be different i will think about my neighbour in everything i do, i will be my brothers keeper and in all i do i will always put God first. i'm sure u are safe now anyway, we all will go someday too and u're lucky u dont have to deal with loosing each of us...we will all meet again kunbz...say hello to sister for me and Ugonnas dad...i love you and i miss you too...your last words to me when i kept telling u that u lived in 10 and me 8 and this ur forgetting memory is a special case...:

  • Mams! It's no 10 oh, dunno how I 4got! Aaaaw thAts nice, nd Ur helping ppl Wich u like doin. Proud of u, so do u go from home nd wen nxt r u in Lagos? Hows MB btw? Yes am in Lagos oh, NYSC has even started. Yes am planning to go for the wedding BGG. Ugonna nd I r good, thank GOD:) how bou u? Ne new bobo or potential?

and my last words to you while you lived were: 

  • Aww that's nice make sure you wear nice make up o! Like ur bday....Yeah I go from home.....I'll come to xmas but not for long at all just 4days cos of work...@potential bobo yes there is one o! Femi and i'm weak cos I wasnt expecting another yoruba boy...lol...not confirmed yet but so far he might be the next..been on a couple of dates and so on...I've left it completely with God to take total control and I told him to pray too..My prayer life is better now and I'm becoming a better christian day by day too and I love my new church too.....I'll post dress today


So my dearest, thats it...I miss u deeply and truly and i thank God for bringing u into my life, you were so tender,sweet and fair. God bless u till we meet again. 





























p.s: that femi guy didnt work o! So please pray for me from there o...lol..ur sister is really tired of all these boboz...we dunno who is lying or saying the truth again.lol....Plus we are now on that charity ish FULL FORCE! Our first fundraiser is on the 13th July and we will be remembering u. God heal our hearts Kunbz especially ur family and Ugonna (I really dunno how he is coping especiallly after his dad, but GOD has to do it. He is not a man that He should lie. He gat this...we will be fine) love u  girlfriendxxx

Wednesday, 23 May 2012

TOP 10 WORST FEMALE HEALTH HABITS

1.WEARING HEELS More and more of us are opting to wear heels on a daily basis,and this could be bad news for our health. High heels affect our posture, put pressure on joints, and can lead to a range of conditions including arthritis, hammer toes, back pain and tendon injuries – and that’s before you take into account any heel-related accidents! To minimise damage, limit your heels to 1.5 inches for daily wear, and wear insoles to help reduce the pressure on joints.

 2.CARRYING A HEAVY HANDBAG With the rising number of gadgets and accessories the majority of women haul around, many of us are carrying around several pounds of weight on our shoulders every day. As a result, lots of us are also putting our long term health at risk. While you may not feel the effects right now, lugging around a heavy handbag can lead to serious back problems and neck pain as well as poor posture. Don’t wait until the damage is done – do your health a favour and try clearing out all non-essential items and switching to a smaller bag.

 3.SLEEPING IN MAKEUP Most of us have succumbed to the temptation to sleep in our post-party makeup at some point. However, leaving makeup on overnight – along with the dirt and oil that naturally accumulates on skin throughout the day – is a quick route to clogged pores, congested skin and spots. Sleeping with mascara and eye makeup on can also affect your health by causing eye irritation, bloodshot eyes or even infection.

 4.MATCHING MEN DRINK FOR DRINK From networking drinks to first dates and social events, there are many instances when women may feel compelled to keep up with the drinking habits of the opposite sex. However, women not only tend to weigh less than men but they have less body water to dilute the alcohol, which means they tend to get more drunk more quickly. To minimise the risks of alcohol on your health, try to keep within the recommended guidelines for alcohol consumption and alternate alcohol with soft drinks.

 5.WEARING THE WRONG BRA SIZE It is thought that more than 70 per cent of women are wearing the wrong bra size. However, wearing a badly fitted bra can not only affect the look of your clothes, but research suggests it can cause a range of health problems including back, neck and breast pain, breathing difficulties, poor posture, skin irritation, circulation problems and even irritable bowel syndrome. Rather than guessing your size, make sure you get measured to ensure you are getting the support you need. 

6.WORRYING AND HARBOURING REGRETS. Stress is damaging to both our physical and mental health, and women are twice as likely as men to suffer from stress-related disorders, as well as having higher rates of depression and anxiety. While it is thought there may be biological reasons for this, worrying about the future and dwelling on regrets can also add to our problems, with research suggesting that women are more than twice as likely as men to harbour regrets over lost loves and broken relationships.

 7.OBSESSING OVER APPEARANCE While both genders suffer from body insecurity, many women tend to overly obsess over their idea of the “perfect” body. Research findings published in the journal Obstetrics & Gynecology found that 16 per cent of the normal or underweight women studied believed themselves to be overweight, while a study commissioned by Dove found that 90 per of women wanted to change at least one aspect of their appearance. Body insecurity not only affects our mental health, but it can also lead to physical damage caused by extreme diets, yo-yo dieting, eating disorders and cosmetic surgery.

 8. EMOTIONAL EATING While comfort eating affects both genders, research has suggested that men are more likely to reinforce positive emotions with food, while women comfort eat when they’re sad. Women are also more likely to satisfy their cravings with sweet, high-calorie foods. Rather than letting your waistline suffer next time you’re feeling blue, try distracting yourself from cravings by doing something you enjoy, or boost your endorphins and health with an uplifting workout.

 9.NOT GETTING ENOUGH SLEEP Not only can lack of sleep make us look and feel at our worst, but insufficient shut-eye can also lead to increased accidents, calorie consumption and heart disease risk. Unluckily for women, statistics suggest that sleep problems affect more women than men, while a study by the University of Michigan found that women are more than twice as likely to give up sleep to care for others. Unfortunately, sleep has been found to affect women’s blood pressure and mood more than men’s, making it imperative that you do your best to get a good night’s sleep.


 10.PUTTING THEMSELVES LAST Not only are women more likely to compromise their sleeping habits to care for children and others, they are also prone to putting their own wants and needs at the bottom of a hectic to-do list of chores and obligations. To avoid running yourself into the ground, learn to sometimes say no to those requests and commitments that are less than essential, and make sure you set aside some “me” time each week to do something enjoyable just for you.

Tuesday, 8 May 2012

Helping children around the world....

Argghhhhh its such a pain trying to come up with a name. We have decided on a plan for PH but now we need a name to start sending out our proposals and its becoming more of a headache than the notion itelf.lol.Oh well, we shall come up with something soonest...till then, please support us in any way that you can. there are too many helpless kids out there, some happy and some sad...we can only reach out to as many, so if you get the opportunity to, please do. remember its not alll about the money but the time
...do it now. Do not wait till tomorrow. I expect to pass through life but once. If therefore, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now, and not defer or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again.SO wherever you are, help :)